OMG, he asked you to wait for him? I hate those type the most. They go to someone else but they don't want to lose the love you have for them, so they ask you to wait. I always say, it has to be a clean break, every single time. If there is any doubt in your or his mind that you are not meant to be, that marriage/realtionship is bound to break.
I agree wealth is not the issue here, yeah I wouldn't mind if he is wealthy but still, the important thing is their attitude toward you. I also too believe that the reformed rakes make the best husband material, but I am so not the one to make that reform.
He needs to be already reformed when he comes to me. I already have enough trust issues, I wouldn't risk my heart for a doubtful relationship.
Yeah, I am bitter